listening with your eye's

People's actions are always telling something listen to what you see

Getting over your self

We know that we!! stop our selves more then any one else.

We let our drama our baggage  get in the way.

Sometimes we have to put our issue assign  for a moment !!!

and re-channel our focus on what we have to do.


Many times there are others depending on us.

it is about us but it's not all about our drama and issues that

paralyze us from getting our job done.


Do work that matters and do it well.

get out of our own way.

Recognized the moments were we have

pity parties and make it all about our isses!!

then detach and move on!!!

pushing stop on Data

in this world of flux and constant flow of Data. We have to consciously push  stop on the data intake.


check out

stop our world

for a little bit

It's healthy

happiness

we have way more control over this then we give our self credit

the gift of misfortune

your biggest misfortune  many times will be your biggest guide in your life it's just the way it works

Men

When men seek God
When men pray
when men learn humility

when men become men of honor
when men have integrity
when men step up.


Men become like a tree planted by streams of water, which yields its fruit in season and whose leaf does not wither. Whatever he does prospers.

this is a tall order!! I know!!

when marriage isn't attractive

when marriage doesn't look attractive children get a skewed idea of marriage
 it has a profound impact on them and keeps the cycle.

when we get better

When we get better our marriages, employee's, families,  bank accounts, relationships
get better.

the facts verses how we feel

very rarely do we remember the actual fact as they happened in any given situation

but always  remember how we felt.

trust

is one of those things that it's  hard to define and hard to measure
 but you know it when it's there.

Success of failure what's the real gain

focus on what you learned from the test or trial
 it's is tempting to focus the pain of  failure
or the pain of success.

it's always about what you've learned.

that's where the gold is.

the improv of life

improv is forward motion with out knowing the next step. the growth and joy of the unknown, the birth of something new pays great dividends.
It takes guts,  it's forces several parts of your brain to work at it's highest level.

we can take this concept to many area's of our life and receive great wealth.

the best way to start is to do something that you have never done before and keep doing it.

the freedom of letting go

We can gain great freedom from letting go.

as I often said "retire from being the GM of the world"

We are not in control, I think we know it. but we choose to fake our selves
out so that we feel less fearful.

however there is great freedom in accepting that reality that we control only our self.

know your beauty

it's really that simple, your a beautiful and amazing person.
Turn off the negative song in your head and start accepting the true.

we don't have to live like every one else

we  have one life to live,

live it in a manner that will leave you fulfilled and at peace.

Go Live

you don't have to put up with folly

you can choose to not engage with the craziness of toxic individuals

there  is way to much life to live.

Go Live!! drama free!!

don't let the steam build.

I am a pressure cooker, I let it build then I explode. It's not that useful

I've had to learn how to say how I feel on the spot then move on, letting it build isn't fair for any
one.

Communication when we feel we are communicating too much it's probably just the right amount.

We need you sooner then you will be discovered

the music business is dead. or business as we knew

it.

this is a really good thing for all the indie musician and creative folks

the biggest thing is to not wait. Don't wait to be picked 

to be accepted.

Create art, fine others who do like wise and support them

any one can be apart of the music business  or creative tribe

common mistake is to wait.

So don't wait to be discovered 

we need your art way sooner then that.

sleep, you owe it to your self and every one else

 things become more irritating. With no sleep!!!

fuses run short, when sleep has been neglected


slow down get a good night of sleep and revisit the work load in the morning

take care of you is your number one priority

the loudest person in the room

is the weakest as well

why not be famous

why not be

rich
 loving
kind
special
successful
enthusiastic
smart
well rounded
sought after
be ok with rocking it
be ok with being #1

for all the women

today I was talking to a soldier and his wife who is headed out on deployment, during our conversation I thanked him for the sacrifice he is making for us. He said the one who really sacrifice is my wife. he thanked me for my kind words and said he was glad that he was grateful for people who still can appreciate the work that they do.

The whole thing got me thinking

So this blog is to all the women who sacrifice for there families

the women who fill in the gap so that others can make it.

military and non-military you know who you
your always putting others first.


I solute you.

have a good day

run your day  so it won't run you.

take 15 min and plan your day

then start

doing important work

When You do important work you don’t always have time to look back
And make sure all of the t’s are cross and I’s are dotted.

The over all sum and consistent manner in which you conduct your
Self is much more important.

Consistency is golden for any type of solid result.

reality of marriage

It's take two

It's not the romance that's hard, it's the living with each other,that takes work. 

this take maturity 

 simple concept, hard work to execute

when it does work it's amazing power experience

It tends to be a either or

expert fear

many time we hear people give advice, make prediction on why we should and or shouldn't do something.

We speaks as though we are experts.

Many times we talk about things that we have not experienced

 

situation we have not been in but some how we are experts.

Our fear is the expert.

take little risk every day.

babies need I say any more

we had a ball!!